I
noticed that jealousy has positive & negative sides. Positive side of
jealousy is that you show that you value the person and you love them that
you're afraid to lose them and the negative side of jealousy is that when it
comes with anger that what you feel is that you seek for revenge to the person
who hurted you.
Well I believe jealousy
exist even before the foundation of the world that's why in The Bible, there
were fallen angels that made the world black and white today. I was no longer
amazed of romantic jealousy of gods and goddesses, in ancient Greek mythology. Hera,
for example, the other half of Zeus (Mt. Olympus leader who obtained many
lovers other than his wife), the perfect example of displaying this type of
jealousy. Hera out of jealousy made revenge to his husband's lovers. The
following are the example who received revenge from Hera that I found in the
article "Hera"
by Mark Cartwright
Leto
When Hera knew that Leto
was pregnant and Zeus is the father she banned her from giving birth to the
main land or any land. Hera had her daughter Eileithyia, the goddess
of childbirth lengthen Leto's labor to nine months.
Callisto
A follower of Artemis, she took a vow that she will remain a
virgin but when Zeus saw her, he fell in love and he disguised himself as
Artemis to pull her in his arms. Hera then turned her into a bear.
Io
Hera almost caught Io and Zeus. But Zeus turned her into a
beautiful cow. Hera wasn't fooled by that what she did was she demanded Zeus to
give the cow to her as a present. When she received Io she gave her to Argus to
keep her from distance to Zeus.
Semele
Was a son of Zeus by a mortal woman. Hera out of jealousy
attempted to kill Semele by sending titans to rip him into pieces after
tempting him with toys.
Jealousy is very destructive in this scene, because the person seek to harm her rival, I believe this case already needs special care from a professional counsellor, Hera needs counselling, her husband on the other side must ensure that she will be taken care of inspite of other woman in his life. I met a Muslim in In Aurora, Quezon, I was amazed of different woman with the same husband living in one compound but they are all happy. They told me that the husband is very fair in terms of the need of each of the family, they are happy probably because this type of situation is already a part of their culture. Amazing but this only shows that every problem has a solution though in other religion it is not acceptable but still, if the case already exist, there still a way of resolving it rather than destroying the one's who hurted you, because it might lead to a more difficult scenario I think that the best way to solve this is through communication and assurance. Talk to your partner regarding what he or she is doing. Everything can be solved by communication. I'm sure that you don't need to be destructive to someone once you know the reason behind why it happened.
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